Difficult conversations
When advice is not what a client hoped to hear.
Difficult conversations / 01
What came before it? What needs attention now? What would a useful reply achieve?
Ed’s approach starts with the whole exchange and the practical consequences of responding.
Read the articleI want the client to understand the recommendation.
The context, the immediate question and what remains unresolved belong in the same conversation.
The people and decisions behind the work
When advice is not what a client hoped to hear.
The trade-offs behind a settlement decision.
The work waiting after a morning in court.
What changes when a client’s priorities change.
What a screenshot leaves out.
What experience or a recent decision changes in practice.